Isn’t it every girl’s fondest wish to be appreciated by her guy? Yet not all women recognize how truly special a man is and would wait for years (in some cases, even a lifetime) for just a little appreciation.
So if you’re a woman who has basically no idea of the importance of your relationship, or your guy is one who is so overbearing that you don’t know how to get him to appreciate you, or both of you are equally at loss as to how to improve your relationship, these tips should help you out.
Acknowledge What He DoesEMBERDONakesay that he does care but is never sure of how much! Any woman can oftener simply feign appreciation and never fully mean it. It’s always better to put what you appreciate into words. When you do, say it with sincerity. Many women try this and instead of receiving any appreciation for years, end up only receiving appreciation for little remarks such as; “I love you”, “I was never happy with the way you were”, “I don’t know what I did wrong but I do know what I don’t like”. No – that’s not what you want! What you want is appreciation for the small things you do, however insignificant they may seem to be.
Trust Him With Your LifeHe is your best friend, your most cherished person, and without him, you would most definitely be out of the life of the 21st century – so it’s only natural that you would want someone who would trust and adore you. Your boyfriend can be that person. And when he knows that you’ve decided to share all your secrets with him, he will truly be your most ardent confidante.
Respect His Personal SpaceNo, you don’t need to spend lavishly on dates. Moreover, you don’t have to allow him to sleep in on the same bed as you. Simply remember, there is nothing wrong in giving him time to be with his friends and family. Likewise, do allow him his freedom. You will be much happier in the long run.
Never NagWhen you finally do get a chance to converse with him, try to put all your issues behind you and just speak about matters directly. Allow his advice to flow freely, don’t give him the cold shoulder. If he realizes that you trust him completely and he has no secrets from you, the more he will be inclined to appreciate you Appreciate.
Take Commitment Off Of The tableLet’s face it; no man would want to be tied down to you and you alone. A great relationship involves give and take. Both parties should work equally. A relationship is a give and take. You only deserve one out of ten. You’re a prize, stuff to be appreciated.
Keep This Temptation Off Of YourselfThis is by far the most important tip you will ever learn. Enjoy life, the minute you step into this world, don’t turn into a killing machine. Keep telling yourself that. Do not change your story to match somebody else’s idea of how you think men act. They are as different as wine tastes Appreciate. It’s a given. If you believe that the only way to attract a man is to bend over backwards, then how can be think it will ever be differ from your thought process. Open your mind for change and see the world with new eyes. Believe that it can be wonderful. Believe that you deserve only the very best. Everything is possible, if you believe it’s possible.