Because, most men do not know what to do to present the qualities of a good, Exceptional, and Irresistible partner to a woman.To them, they think that the only way to attract a woman is to become as rich, handsome, young, famous or powerful as what they consider as the media image of a spouse.
So, when they meet a woman who has none of the above qualities (of course beauty and money can be a master — it’s only psychologically illogical that most men think that these qualities are necessary to attract and entertain woman.
After all you’ve been told that you won’t be able to have what you want if you don’t become the feared type), the self-esteem of the man goes down and his confidence turns to anxieties, he can hardly talk, feels depressed and deeply unhappy.
The net result is that a man meets a woman, who seems”useful,” and to allintents and purposes, useful. She gives him positive feed back on his ambitions and his POSA( personality characteristics). But husband, at some level, is still considered someone who can provide, and the woman holds no real attraction for him. At this point, most man will try to “Buy her affection” and have her feel interested in him, but he make a big mistake.
As I said earlier, the woman does not feel the need to be attracted. Why? Because she knows exactly what she wants and she’ll tell you. You might think this is horrible, but at some level, she actually feels that your trying to buy her. As soon as you express your true interest in her, the whole situation is over. Thus, the fantastic and enlightening truth:
If you want to succeed, and I assume you do after reading this, make sure you don’t follow the approach of either “Buying her affection” or “Right now I’d like to have some fun so gimme your number.”That will only make you lose her, Time is precious and there is no such thing as eternal life.There are certain challenges with this approach that you should know about.Here are some of those challenges:
You Are presenting yourself to her as someone who has certain character traits which you picked up from society and also from your family and friends.Her indeterminate reaction gives you the idea that you should learn to accept your errors of judgment, or that she is not interested. You can not please someone unless you accept your errors of judgment.
And the best answer to your problem is to ask questions about her so that you can figure out what are the things that always make her laugh and excited.The key to succeeding with her and to actually getting a chance to discuss future of your life together is that you are a true MAN and you do not need to seek her approval.
This will sound illogical, but when you’ve tried it many times and you always end up getting someone who does not feel the same way about you that you do about her, you should stop asking her opinion about your future plans.
Instead, you should learn how to make your decision, express it and let her know your decision by being direct and very manly.