Why do a number of you girls always seem to fall for the wrong kind of guy, over and over again? You have done your research, and you have decided that you are not going to get involved with a ” regular guy ” like most of us guys are. You are tired of being led around by a goose, and you want a ” bad boy ” or a ” bad man ” to put a Stop to the nonsense.
You have a fantasy in your head of what Mr. Right is like: tall, dark, handsome, wealthy, ” bad boy ” or a ” biker. But are you determined to turn into this ” great guy ” without ever putting into practice what you want? I don’t care how charming this guy is, or how many girlfriends he has, if you are going to start surfing the internet for insights on becoming a “Mr. Right”, you must first turn into the ” right guy ” yourself.
Are you a romantic at heart?
Are you burdened by the stereotypes associated with being a sweet guy, a caring partner, sweethearts or the hopeless romantic? Does a guy who doesn’t fit into either of these descriptions make you feel better or scared? Are you scared of dating guys that you think you will never meet because they are too different from the others, or are too different from your expectations?
Do you doubt that you are ever going to find Mr. Right , because you think you are never going to be attracted enough to the right guy, or are too unattractive to the right guy?If all the above questions are ringing true for you, then you might already be familiar with the “Mr. Wrong” treadmill that keeps going round and round.
Call it frustration, call it a past experience, call it whatever you want but know this: do not allow the thought of finding true love to take root in your mind. It’s a dangerous thought! If you think that you are going to meet the love of your life because he is secretly waiting in the background for you to notice him, he is going to remain in the background. The truth is that you will never meet him unless you make it happen.
How do you manifest a wonderful partner?
You do it by learning to embrace all parts of yourself, including the “bad” ones, and begin to learn to reject the parts that you do not want. If you want to be a bad boy, kick that “nice-guy” self out of the equation. If you want to be a bad man, embrace your inner bad boy! Be positive with yourself and understand that the people that you attract are just individuals who have flaws, personality quirks and habits as well as positive attributes that make them fabulous human beings.
If you want to focus on the parts of yourself that you hate, then be sure to hide out the parts of yourself that you like. If you are naturally vain and dissatisfied with your appearance, then by all means cover it up with enough makeup and clothing to hide the pain and the imperfections.
But if you are a proud and happy person, there is no need to hide the real you.Why is it painful to reject yourself? Because in doing so you are rejecting everything in your life that you love and that is so important to you.If you are tired of waiting for Prince Charming to do the romancing and you want to stop settling for Mr. Wrong (or Mr. Right Now) then get yourself a imagery package and Fall in Love With Yourself Again.