There is no step by step destination for you to attain in relation to women, where you need to stop and be ready to start an interaction. You have to start an activity which is directly connected with what you desire.
The 3 Golden Rules
A. Always approach a women from the location of safety (good locations are public places).
B. If you are biking, walk when going to/from a location where a women that interests you is.
C. Acknowledge your fear and don’t act until you have counting to 3 or less (it means just because its not your intention to just have sex, its because its scary and you don’t know what will happen – a good laugh).
D. If it is your first time to approaching a women ask for an opinion.
E. Do not ask: “What do you think of such and such”? Instead ask something like “I wonder what could be good to you”. Asking such kind of question will make the women think that you have some commitment towards her.
B. Do not expect something immediately. Instead, set a new goal and tell yourself that you are going to achieve it with threshold cycle(s).
C. Don’t fault find yourself. Finding the negatives in everything will make you fall in disesteem. Instead, find the positive side of everything and see whether you can make something positive out of it.
D. Try to fix your mindset. Before you approach or you are approaching, think if she is going to accept you and come out. After you do it, realize that it is such a big thing.
E. Always be confident of yourself (this is non-verbal). It doesn’t matter if you don’t have the looks, the height, the wealth, the fame, the fortune, nothing matters to the extent it does to you. Because you have nothing else to show her, she will accept you (if she is a 9 or 10).
C. Don’t be outcome dependent (e.g. – trying to see if she will accept you). Instead, have goals, have plans, and have expectations (your self image). Always have something (a goal photographs, a plan to get a computer, a set of goals to have a travel Expensive).
Now, about the first approach – look him in the eye, smile and say: hey, how’s it going?
B. Initially, he probably will give you some kind of positive reaction – because there is nothing you haven’t seen and therefore you are not a threat). Don’t be afraid, be assured that this encounter when going to pass, you will have made an average guess.
A common mistake most men will do when trying to approach women is that they do not have a clue about what they want to achieve. Let me try to explain – think of a football match or a dog show. Men usually are obsessed with what women will think and say. But take a moment and think about this:
Women wants to meet a guy who can come and talk to them ( comfortably ) and express his interest Humor
Men usually won’t approach a woman they are not comfortable with.But, after a while, a man who can carry a conversation confidently can gain interest and attention from many women. So, on a scale of 1 to 10, where 1 means not very interested and 10 very interested, it can mean 10 very interested, possible responses from a single woman.
There was a recent research that came out of a psychology about 90 women. They answered a survey there about what really makes 40 year old men attractive. Men that were attractive to women were rated as 8.5 with social attractiveness being ranked 8.7. That means that if you are a typical man of around 40 years old, you will make the attractive woman very attracted
Now imagine you don’t look anything like Brad Pitt and you have a very full head of hair, it would not matter what you were doing, how you were dressed and made the body of a hip hop dancer, a very attractive guy, and you are worried that your looks will not be enough, as you have been messing up since age 16.
But this one guy who is around your age, with enough money and power, has been a failure with women judging by the amount of attraction that is generated by a man’s body language because it’s in front of a lot of new people.You personally will generate attraction of around 7, but this new guy you met who is as handsome as Brad Pitt will probably give you over 30% more attraction.The point is, if you don’t know what you want to achieve with women or your potential partners, why are you dating?